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What are Guys Like Me? Straight, Gay, or Bisexual?

Less and less there seems to be any relevance in the ridiculous hard-set dividing lines between straight, bisexual and gay. What am I? For all intensive purposes, I am straight. I love females, especially dark and dusky blacks, Indians, Arabs, and Latinas, and I like breasts - large and small. I have had many such girlfriends, including the one I married.

A lifetime of masturbating while thinking of people I could never meet and have sex with (mainly those men featured in straight hardcore adult webcams) has made me appreciate big beautiful horny cut penises. I think this is perhaps because webcams seem to imprint the mind by associating the visual with the current pleasurable physical feeling, especially at that moment of climax; perhaps an association of identifying one's own hard dick pleasure with that of another man imprints the mind with a big hard dick, especially if it resembles one's own, as a stimulating turn-on. Identifying fully with this, I have shared it with other male mates that I have masturbated with. A lovely big dick in action is also a large and important part of my sexual turn-on and activities.

I think almost every male is turned on by showing off his own proud hard-on. Most of my masturbating mates, like me, consider ourselves straight, but willingly share the stimulation of straight webcams and the pleasures of masturbating with other men. Many are bisexual guys in the sense that they also enjoy mutual masturbating - which I interpret as doing the actual penis stroking masturbating to each other (not just in each other's presence). Some of these guys wouldn't consider oral sex with a guy (sucking or being sucked).

Then, many are bisexual guys in the sense that they also do enjoy having their dick sucked or sucking another guy's dick - as part of a shared gay oral sex experience, but still wouldn't consider humping or being humped by another guy in the ass.

Yet one or two of the guys I have known are gay guys, who are only turned on by men and not at all by women. They have liked to show me female webcams while masturbating themselves turned on by watching me wank my massive dick. I love looking at adult webcams and masturbating with other males. I also enjoy watching adult webcams and mutual masturbating. So does that make ME bisexual?

While looking at webcams with a male friend, I also love having my dick sucked. And knowing how lovely it feels, I will willingly return the pleasure and suck a guy with a beautiful big cut dick - perhaps because visually it reminds me so much of my own beauty. So does that make me bisexual in that same sense?

Other bisexual friends are bisexual in the sense that they also like anal sex with another guy. So far that's not an activity that would turn me on; so does that mean I am not bisexual at all I take the word "bisexual" to mean "fully sexual with both men and women"?

When any of these categories or labels mean different things to different people, it therefore seems subjective and arbitrary. Until society agrees on more specific categories and sub-categories, descriptions are more precise than labels; which, at best, can only supply a general compass heading, but not a destination.

What about other male-male activities? Where do they put the individual? The problem is further confounded when comparing male to male and female to female activities. Females can't naturally have intercourse with each other but males can. That seems to lead to the idea of anything sexual that females do together means that they are lesbian. But there is a less separating division between males because of the wider variation in their activities. If two women can share what must be a most beautiful pleasure - rubbing their delicious clits together, and not even the most macho or homophobic male would not find that a turn-on to see; then surely men, to be equally regarded, need to likewise liberate themselves and enjoy the wider pleasures of a more sexually progressive society instead of hanging onto useless labels and ancient, outmoded religio-social values.

Segregation of sexual categories is completely senseless and un-natural for Benobo apes, squids, and many other mammals and non-mammals in the natural world of which humans are a continual and inseparable evolutionary part.

One male to male activity enjoyed by gay, bisexual, and liberated straight males is penis to penis masturbating. I like to call it "double barrel masturbating", but is also known as frottage - more usually among gay guys as well as some bisexuals. But the word 'frottage' can mean many different things - from dry humping to rubbing penises together, to hugging each other while naked and rubbing their whole bodies together as they grind their erections together to come to orgasm. Some do it laying down and others do it standing up. Each one of these frottage activities may seem gayer to some people than others. To me, none of these frottage activities would never turn me on initially as only a woman or the visual perception of a woman can get me sexually aroused.

A couple of mates and I have found ourselves feeling so horny while looking at female porn that we have retired to the floor or bed with such sustainable erections that we have simply enjoyed our own and each other's highly turned on and excited state, perhaps continuing with oral sex in the "69 position" - sucking each other or masturbating dick to dick. So am I therefore bisexual? But bisexuals have anal sex with each other as well as women don't they?

Isn't that what makes them bisexual - humping both females and males? But I don't like anal sex with males. I don't even fancy humping female asses, let alone a male. But what about adult webcams that show bisexual guys eventually humping? Once turned on, I certainly love looking at some limited aspects of bisexual or even gay sex webcams. Seeing lovely big dicks being sucked and wanked and shooting loads of lovely cream over each other is certainly a big turn on, as I can imagine what it feels like. But gay lovey-dovey kissing and cuddling, nipple stroking and pulling, ass stroking, licking, slapping or humping is just not for me!

So what are guys like me? Are we straight because we love women and love masturbating over them? Or are we gay because we like sharing our horniness with other guys? Are we bisexual because we like that as well as females? Are we un-gay because we have no anal-sexual or lovey-cuddling for each other? Perhaps 'pure gay' is easier to define. Perhaps even bisexual is easier to define if we limit it to guys who like humping males as well as females. But where does that leave the rest of us? I just see myself as a liberated, broad-minded, and adventurous male with no big sexual hang-ups I guess.


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