Somehow, internet means freedom. Confined with only p.c. on the
desk, a person can find information about any subject anywhere. Distances were
shortened: even miles away, two people can still talk or see each other through
webcams and gadgetry. With the advent of the Internet, the whole world grown
smaller, just a click away. And all possibilities turn into a brave new world
for isolated people. As safe in their households, they can get in touch with
people form the vicinity or faraway places. With non-applicable censorship,
internet becomes the place to disclose their most secret inner-feelings - for
all that, there's a website or forum that deals with the very sought after issue.
That's why gays and lesbians, by and large, use the internet as a way to find
likeable people.
Although sexual orientation achieved respect through tolerance,
there are people who don't share those feelings yet. As a result, most gays
seem reserved or don't expose their sexual choices - as afraid of retaliation.
A grudge some people hold against freethinkers is highly detrimental and causes
concern. So, the internet became a safe haven, a way for ultimately spill the
beans. And that's what the chat rooms of internet are all about. Since each
chat room caters for a specific need, options abound. There one can say what
really wants and make friends, those who may share same doubts and feelings,
finding the ever so-sought after tolerance non-existent in the real world as
yet. Chat rooms are sanctuaries to feel free and be yourself, perhaps, that
shows us why so many regardless of sexual leanings access gay chat rooms. It
gives a feeling of belonging, a relief from loneliness, and answers questions
unlikely to be sought back at digs, neither school and let alone churches.
But it's not a paradise as such. Some studies show the likelihood
that gay internet chat rooms might have helped increasingly high-risk sexual
activity between gay men. After all, people use chat-rooms to occasionally meet
sex partners, in turn ended up by having unsafe sex. Since not knowing partners'
profile beforehand, the risk of getting infected increases. However, it's a
possibility that still grounds in prove-showing. Meantime, homosexuals continue
to fight isolation in chat rooms. Internet, in some ways, can spell freedom.